I shared this all with Joe and he was genuinely concerned that I would love this baby less *because* he is a boy.

You know. I was ambivalent about having a boy. I thought of Twin B (as he was called then) sort of as an add on to the girl I really wanted. I was worried that I wouldn't know what to do with a boy.

But I adore Noah and can't imagine it any other way. So I wouldn't worry about it too much (not that you are).