It's not spam! I actually wanted to talk to someone who might disagree with me. You put the issue in an interesting context - that everyone deserves to be loved. The issues of foster/unwanted children - I used to be able to just brush them off as "yeah, that's sad," but having a baby makes me think about all that stuff a lot more. I don't have any answers, but you are right that all children deserve to be loved, etc.