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ste_noniEllie woke up last night around 1am with a low fever (100). Since she still had it when we woke up, I stayed home with her. I feel like a bit of a shammer because she seems basically herself, although a bit more whiny, but obviously, it's not good for her or the other kids for her to go with a fever.
Today, however, has just served to remind me how I don't like my job. Someone asked me if I ever think about that baby that I would have had from my last pregnancy. i don't much - I'm too emotionally prepared (read scarred) to have gotten very attached so quickly, but I did get excited about the idea that I would only have to work until Christmas time. Since my friend left at the end of April, work is just not fun. And my new position is very stressful.
But the thing is...I'm not a quitter. It just feels too much like a spoiled brat to just up and leave because I don't really like it. Ellie would have to leave daycare full time if I quit. I do like her going at least a few hours everyday. I think it's as good for her as it is for me to have some adult time.
I keep hoping that my dissatisfaction is simply my usual "I hate everything new" and will go away on its own in the next few weeks.
Today, however, has just served to remind me how I don't like my job. Someone asked me if I ever think about that baby that I would have had from my last pregnancy. i don't much - I'm too emotionally prepared (read scarred) to have gotten very attached so quickly, but I did get excited about the idea that I would only have to work until Christmas time. Since my friend left at the end of April, work is just not fun. And my new position is very stressful.
But the thing is...I'm not a quitter. It just feels too much like a spoiled brat to just up and leave because I don't really like it. Ellie would have to leave daycare full time if I quit. I do like her going at least a few hours everyday. I think it's as good for her as it is for me to have some adult time.
I keep hoping that my dissatisfaction is simply my usual "I hate everything new" and will go away on its own in the next few weeks.
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Date: 2007-06-19 02:42 pm (UTC)>It just feels too much like a spoiled brat to just up and leave because I don't really like it.
If, in a couple of weeks, you decide that you really do hate your job, it's not being a spoiled brat to hand in your resignation. By then you will have thought about the job, your options, and made a reasonable decision based on everything you know about what life is like with this job, and what life will be without it. That's not a spoiled brat reaction. That's a well-thought out response to stress and the balance of life & work.
I keep my fingers crossed for the best possible outcome!
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Date: 2007-06-19 02:44 pm (UTC)